It's one of those wonderfully subjective experiences that means no two people are identical and therefore very unlikely to agree, how can you agree on something that appears/feels different from one person to the next.
To try and win the suspension/no suspension or fork suspension/stem suspenson (not to mention the derrier or anywhere else we can think of) argument is MADNESS I tell you! and the stuff of wars....
There has been some interesting information though so I am ordering a suspension stem I have found and I will let you all know how I get on with a purely subjective opinion that will only be applicale to me 
then we can discuss how wrong I am hehe (when I will obviously be right)
